By
Rabbi Nosson Lederer
We
are all constantly warmed and inspired by the countless stories
of people and organizations who do anonymous acts of chesed. Whether
it is the slipping of an envelope under the door and making a quick
get-away, or a grocer erasing credit accounts, these acts of preserving
the dignity of the recipient is an attribute which is not new to
Bnai Yisroel.
The Bais Halevi, ZT"L, in this
weeks parsha, brings to light for us how Rivka Imeinu brilliantly
balanced her act of chesed with utmost care as not to embarrass
the recipient, Eliezer.
When asked to give Eliezer a drink she was faced
with a dilemma. Eliezer had asked, Please give me some
water to drink from your pitcher. (Beraishis 24:17)
Could she then carry the rest of this water, which might have been
contaminated by a stranger, back to her house?
To solve this problem, she decided that she would
spill the leftover water in her pitcher into the trough of the camels,
as it says And she hurried and she emptied her pitcher
into the trough." (24:20) She realized, though, that giving
her leftover water to the camels might cause Eliezer embarrassment,
so she handled the situation with sensitivity by initially
saying, I will also draw for your camels until they will
finish drinking. (24:19)
Through this statement Eliezer would then understand
that the purpose of her emptying the pitcher into the trough was
not because she was suspicious of him, but rather, because she wanted
to feed the camels. This way any embarrassing feelings Eliezer might
have would be allayed.
In this episode, Rivka Imeinu combined her outstanding
middah of chesed with great brilliance in order to save the
recipient of her act, a total stranger she had never seen before,
even the slightest bit of embarrassment.
Looking at it from a more halachic standpoint,
the Bais Halevi, in Parshas Terumah, says that a poor
man, at the time of his accepting tzedaka, is considered
a cheftza shel mitzvah, an object of mitzvah, just like an
esrog on Succos, which may not be disgraced. (Shabbos 22a)
Let us hope that we can always emulate this beautiful
harmony of kindness and thoughtfulness which gives us just another
reason to say "Umi k'amcha yisroel goi echad baaretz,
who is like your people Israel, one nation in the land.
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